Living in a world metastasized by emojis and short-form communications, the soft power of manners is a timeless and potent arsenal for evolution that has been conveniently misunderstood as ineffective. Words have always been the foremost form of expression that impacts human beings on a day-to-day basis. Some of the most impactful words that not only impact others but also bring a sense of calm and peace within are 'SORRY', 'PLEASE', and 'THANK YOU'. Often underestimated, these three powerful words, when used consciously on a day-to-day basis, can change the trajectory of any potentially cumbersome situation towards a peaceful space. When we carry these words, we reflect grace, empathy and human connection. Often overlooked, these simple words carry the seed of something mighty, capable of growing swiftly into a tree that grounds, connects, and nourishes human relationships.

SORRY - It is not just confined to the admission of fault. It is an acknowledgment of contribution in hurting someone intentionally or intentionally defining care. A simple 'sorry' can melt walls, soften anger, and pave the way for dialogue that can open doors to forgiveness. Unfortunately, in today’s time sorry is viewed as a bruise on ego, but in reality, it is an act of courage. What’s important is to realize that a “sorry” without sincerity is like a bridge with no foundation that collapses under the weight of expectation. It’s not about saying the word, but meaning it.

PLEASE - A minimal and soft word in form, yet vast in meaning. It carries no force, yet its influence often reaches further than any command. In moments where power could easily overshadow kindness, this soft syllable restores balance with elegance, whether spoken to a child, a waiter, or a stranger. It is a quiet act of respect that conveys, ‘I honour your effort.’ In an environment that rushes to demand, ‘please is the pause that invites connection because true power isn’t in demanding, it lies in asking with grace.

THANK YOU - A gentle bow of gratitude. A way of expressing I care, I value, I appreciate. A simple thank you is humble enough to fill in the gap between the rich and the poor. An eight-letter word with the power to make someone feel respected and seen. Whether it’s the domestic help working tirelessly in your home, the vegetable vendor under the scorching sun, or the auto-rickshaw driver navigating busy streets. A simple, sincere “thank you” can brighten their day. It’s more than courtesy; it’s an act of recognition. It tells them, “I see you, I value your effort, and I respect your work. Try it and watch the magic unfold.

In today’s era, strength is glamorised as noise, loud equals confidence, pushy is defined as powerful and quiet is referred to as weak. But that is the biggest myth. True strength manifests in calmness, composure, connectedness, and it shows in the courage to say SORRY, humility to say PLEASE, and the sagacity to say THANK YOU. Sometimes, it’s not grand gestures but small, sincere words that transform a life and remind us how powerful kindness can truly be.

AUTHOR’S QUOTE :
Sorry, Please and Thank you - Three sacred words so small, yet soul’s true song, when spoken with truth, heal the heart and right the wrong!

Kamiya Arora
( Author and highly celebrated Dj of India )

Living in a world metastasized by emojis and short-form communications, the soft power of manners is a timeless and potent arsenal for evolution that has been conveniently misunderstood as ineffective. Words have always been the foremost form of expression that impacts human beings on a day-to-day basis. Some of the most impactful words that not only impact others but also bring a sense of calm and peace within are 'SORRY', 'PLEASE', and 'THANK YOU'. Often underestimated, these three powerful words, when used consciously on a day-to-day basis, can change the trajectory of any potentially cumbersome situation towards a peaceful space. When we carry these words, we reflect grace, empathy and human connection. Often overlooked, these simple words carry the seed of something mighty, capable of growing swiftly into a tree that grounds, connects, and nourishes human relationships.

SORRY - It is not just confined to the admission of fault. It is an acknowledgment of contribution in hurting someone intentionally or intentionally defining care. A simple 'sorry' can melt walls, soften anger, and pave the way for dialogue that can open doors to forgiveness. Unfortunately, in today’s time sorry is viewed as a bruise on ego, but in reality, it is an act of courage. What’s important is to realize that a “sorry” without sincerity is like a bridge with no foundation that collapses under the weight of expectation. It’s not about saying the word, but meaning it.

PLEASE - A minimal and soft word in form, yet vast in meaning. It carries no force, yet its influence often reaches further than any command. In moments where power could easily overshadow kindness, this soft syllable restores balance with elegance, whether spoken to a child, a waiter, or a stranger. It is a quiet act of respect that conveys, ‘I honour your effort.’ In an environment that rushes to demand, ‘please is the pause that invites connection because true power isn’t in demanding, it lies in asking with grace.

THANK YOU - A gentle bow of gratitude. A way of expressing I care, I value, I appreciate. A simple thank you is humble enough to fill in the gap between the rich and the poor. An eight-letter word with the power to make someone feel respected and seen. Whether it’s the domestic help working tirelessly in your home, the vegetable vendor under the scorching sun, or the auto-rickshaw driver navigating busy streets. A simple, sincere “thank you” can brighten their day. It’s more than courtesy; it’s an act of recognition. It tells them, “I see you, I value your effort, and I respect your work. Try it and watch the magic unfold.

In today’s era, strength is glamorised as noise, loud equals confidence, pushy is defined as powerful and quiet is referred to as weak. But that is the biggest myth. True strength manifests in calmness, composure, connectedness, and it shows in the courage to say SORRY, humility to say PLEASE, and the sagacity to say THANK YOU. Sometimes, it’s not grand gestures but small, sincere words that transform a life and remind us how powerful kindness can truly be.

AUTHOR’S QUOTE :
Sorry, Please and Thank you - Three sacred words so small, yet soul’s true song, when spoken with truth, heal the heart and right the wrong!

Kamiya Arora
( Author and highly celebrated Dj of India )